Dear Besties and for those who bothers to read my blog, HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU?
Let's do a test on my relationship, with extracts from BlueHoneyJoanne
-i can TOTALLY relate with this. bbbbbbbb is REALLY someone who is never too stingy with $, he never was since the day we started hanging out as friend. Not that he is super well off or anything, but he is always encouraging me to go shopping and to reward myself whenever neccessary. On top of that, he was always generous with his friends and mine too.... There was never a need to be calculative around him.
Not sure if i can tell his story here, but bbbbbbb use to have a good buddy who was always generous about sharing, he always encourage bbbbbbb to share cos ultimately $ is the last thing we can bring into our grave with.
Not too long after, bbbbbbb's buddy passed on, but bbbbb carry on his buddy's belief of sharing, and i dare say he has done a pretty great job
Probably cos he reckon i shoudnt be shouting into the phone whenever i am upset over somebody else... but... to me.. as someone whose temper is shorter than a ruler, i usually just accumlate all the "suffer" and rant it out, after which its over, once and for all. We haven really work out a solution to this yet, but bbbbbbbb has since agree to accept hearing me rant. I believe we'll solve it one day- together
- I am guilty of these, bbbbb has been sacrificing, he is living all the way at UK, yet he scrimp and save every penny so that when i did fly over, we'll have enough for us both, sad to admit thou he was the most generous guy i've met around, he wasnt doing the same to himself.
BUT i will assure our lives in future will be better off, him with a Degree and so do i, our combine income alone will allow us to live in comfort, to compensate every single bit of hardship we've been going through.
and bbbbbbb sacrifice quite a bit in the sense that he had always encourage me to hang out with my pals while he run down to the nearest library so as not to digress in his studies.... to me its a huge sacrification to an otherwise-quality-time-spend-with-each-other relationship.
- haha... he does put on a couple of kilos ever since we hang out, but bbbbbbbb is a health freak, so together, we wont add on hell lotsa pounds.
- from bringing me out to lunch when i was covered in bumps, till sending me to the clinic when i was infected with a dizzy-spell while consuming paracetomol- which i later realise i was sensitive to..... bbbbbbbb has proven times and times again, how he was willing to take care of me (especially during the times when i was infected with those bumps, i cant sit in a bus, cant stay in the sun, and is highly contagious.
Try to blog a list of the niceest thing your guy have ever done, immediately u will feel the need to love him all over again... it took me less than 10 mins into the fight to re-think about our relationship, and to want to cherish him all over again. Does your guy loves you this much too?