Work today sucks..

hate busy days, hate being order around, i guess i am sufferring from a serious job-hate-cy
i wish for a holiday, cheap, almost free, and enjoyable


haha.. anyway that day my man board a bus that looks as interesting as this..
let me know if u can sit on any that is even better thatn this for as low as $0.65 - SBS bus
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cushion seats by the back

colourful handrails with green bar chairs

check out those bar chairs.. on public bus!!!

red leather seats for u couples

tiny chair for the singles

more chair as Singaporean are more singles..



i swear this is SBS bus number 5.. try ur luck some day k?

Just when was the last time you sit by the window let the cold wind wash onto your face

i had this question ponder on me for the past few minutes, for tonight the wind is exceptionally strong.
i haven had the urge to blog for the longest time, today the urge arrive, congested and ready to burst

i miss everyone so much.. DKS is breaking up.. the feeling is strong..
Denise and i still met up, but Sharon seems to disappear, maybe to some others friendship is never on top

Apel is the sweetest to drop by town and pay me a visit, i am sick of far east, the though of going there is equilvalent to working.. i might just puke

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dining at Yuki-Yaki

The perfect vege-mushroom combo- my favourite.. cooked by the Man =)
(i am still gleeming with delight)

there was this ice metal plate where u scrap icecream off.. yum yum
(we ate so much ice cream)

Even more ice cream (haha.. to psycho u)

these are cups of melted ice cream syrup, u have to pour them over the ice-metal-plate to freeze it into ice-cream again=)

How u can tel when 2 person are @#$@#%#$^fucking full

Here are some food we cooked, as u can probably tell by now, the man and i are pure-chicken-eater. No beef, no lard, no pork

here's another vege-mushroom combo which i din really like.. but it was another gift from the man

more to keep u hungry..(pardon my appetite, mushrooms and vegetables just turns me on more than anything else.. hahhaa)

hw to tell a person is in love?

she tinks about the same person so much she practically sees his face on her hp..

thats waht i did.. now i have a silly boy picture on my phone..

and he has mine too!!!

wa-hahahha.. disguested? about to vomit?

better not, the worst has yet to come..

dread being online..

dread putting thoughts into words,,

am working on a book call "the pleasure's mine"

its a book very sexually involve, talks about a girl whose life revolve around S/M,. \

turns out there are alot of people that likes to be dominant and some who prefer to be submissive,

so if ya a submissive, yu enjoy being hurt, spank in the ass(they call them cheek) and urine in the facem wound with a rope,

if ya a domme(for female), doms(for males) u prefer to torture the submissive, on the tiniest things they've done wrong..

i can see how S/M works, they find a suitable partner, one who likes to be hurt, and the other who likes to hurt.

Thats how the business works, some submissive (mainly woman) only enjoys being dominated by another female.

Many S/M does not involves sex..

realise the world is so strange.. ? i cant figure out how people thinks.. but by reading novels stating their thougt and feelings.. i am feeling really strange being a normal person myself..

hai.. till another day

Very long ago





giving a treat to Sharon and Denise with my first pay..
we had dinner at a Korean restaurant and the bill was a total rip off

*thanks to the smart waitress, i manage to save $50 on the bill.haha

anyway that was a incident all too long ago.

today Denise darlin gave me and sharon a treat.. we had a sumptous dinner at Kim Gary, which is a poshier version of Xin wang Hong Kong Cafe.. food was great.. portion was so wrong!!!

my noodle came to me in a bowl twice the size of my head. We then carry on shopping till the shop have to chase us all out of the mall. haha.. girls are girls..

We end the day with some really delicious cakes at Bakerinz.. try it cos its fucking nice.
its been a while since i blogged and chat with my besties.. They look almost the same, except
1. Denise claim she is putting on weight to a unhealthy range soon
2. sharon avoids all tummy issues cos she claims she has one
3. Kristal says she put on 1 fucking@#$%#^$^ kg

all in all, we are all getting fatter. hate it./
Anyway i bought my bra from La Senza today, i tot i was a pretty big splender to bought 4 sets all at once.
Cant blame it thou.. its been a while and my flesh needs some new cushion.. hahhaa


i've been spending non-stop time with my boyfriend, we visit Ikea not too long ago and are about to buy a queen size bed together, this is so because he hasn;t had a bed since forever, and thought one huge bed will be nice to sleep on for the very first time. This bed, he claims, also serve as a mean to prepare me to spend nights with him at his place.. i tot that was highly redundant, cos mum will kill me if i ever did.
Anyway a bed will be nice cos off days i spend at his place in the day totaly boreds me,,. we will usually rent a DVD to watch, buy some food and "nua" till the sun goes down, then i will head home.. now at least i can "nua" on the bed.. haha

ok.. so much about a bed, its really fun trying to doll up a simple room.. all from square 1.

Anyway i had to confess, after much discussion with my boyfriend,,.
i bet alot of people wanna know about the dark secret..
===== i had a thing for an ang moh looking guy
its been a while, and i finally couldn't tk it anymore one day, i confess to him (my bf)
The man got really really devastated over the whole issue but i was really glad he stayed by me all this while..

eventually i weight my importance in life and decided to fall back to simple ground..
i am still with my bf, proud to say, and we are even more truly in love..

haha. pure nonsece.. night reader

Lost some weight recently.. and in particularly like this two pic..

beacuse both occasion i lost the double chin i always had

ok.. actuall fact is i no longer have any double chin

but the weight lost does not signifiy any positively

yet i must thank those pressure and stress well-develope by work

food is secondary now.. i lost 5 kgs..

i am unsure of myself now.

i have a secret to hide..

a very dark secret

i cant tell it to any soul on earth

tomorro i am going to face the secret again

pls let me get rid of it before he comes back

i am feeling rather down, the confusion inside me is burning.. i have thousand of question, yet not a single one wants to be ask

he finally called, after my longest wait of 9 days. the past few days msg-ing hasn't gone well.
i kept tellinh myself things will get better when he returns, i picture so many scenarios of us enjoying when he returns.

then he finally queue enough to drop me a call, that very short conversation of 15 min ends up inhe claiming i was
- bad temper, worst than before
- get fussed up over single things he said\
- putting work with personal life
- to change my temper when he returns.

this kind of feeling are really complicated.
dear all that bother to read, imagine urself really anticipatin to meet this man u have "appoint" to officially date u after 42 days.
While he was away, u picture all that very very nice moments u two share together
Then he msg u with motivation that u are not to far from his return
Every day of anticipation = one more day of good perfect picture of him

then suddenly u are few days away from meeting him
Then the 2 of u quarrel, and argue, and cannot agree with things.
he puts off all quarrel claiming that things will get better when he returns
that he will make sure u stop being so bad-temper after he return
that he will treat u better when he returns

the truth is --- he is pushing all fault till he returns,
and u have picture all that perfect moments when he return
Does tat means i have to expect perfection when he returns?
does that means we will no longer quarrel when he returns?
the actual fact is that he is still the same old person he always is
yes distance makes the heart grew fonder,
but ultimately. the 2 of u still disagree on the same issues

i fear, for every single seconds i am nearing to meeting him, i am that closer to screwing up that perfect picture inside me

those perfect moment where he will know what exactly to do at the correct moments,
where he will make sure i no longer cry over the same dispute at work
u, we, all know that will never happen, cos he is still the same man

i wonder now, have u been hypnotizing myself to relate him to that perfect man i like?
when in actual fact he is still that guy i know contain all that flaws in him

if only i hadn't anticipate
if only he hadn't keep pushing it all till his return
if only he hadn't left
if only we hadn't met

if only things were a little simplifed.

but those are only "if only"

Wat can be more fun than hanging out with a fren?

on this very day Apel n i got bored, no one ask each other out, i travel to her house for no reason, and we ended up shopping

and what can be more fun then helping each other get the attention

see how much fun mirrors and changing room can do to us

we got dressed up.. make purchase and get happy

so yeah, here's a present for her


i am feeling the stress in growing up,
yes my current pay is higher than any body else of my age
but so is my stress.
losing sleep
losing weight
losing motivation
losing beauty
and i hope i am not losing my loves one pretty soon

cos the only thing we ever talk about now is when their money is coming

i love apel yap for who she is
somehow after a big circle..
whenever i am bored. the phone auto dials her number
and she auto agree to go out
this time she automatically drags her bf and me to her sec sch gathering
embaressing enough but The Labyrinth was fun la
alcohol was good, ppl there were great, singing was a little difficult
overall was good and we get to return for the same wine again, even better

anyway i am going to crash her room tomorro before meeting the ex-peiying primary schoolmates for a gathering.. how scared,.. fear they might just blurt out stupid comment like fat and stuff..

haha.. dun care la.. have to face it sooner or later

apel yap.. see i blog u liaop

Pulau Ubin Trip Yesterday

At $2 bucks per ride, (one bicycle = one person)
u enjoy all the sceneries u might never see in singapore

1. mobile toilet
= instant shit
= instant clean
= absolutely no flush require!
= $12/- contact kristal for enquiries

under the toilet bowl u may even witness presence of crocodile,
enjoying ur leftovers

the scenes are uniquely prior to individual,
some regard this scene as beautiful, others find it a place of dumps and pees

the water in the quary/query looks fresh, but tour guide Simon says it's a combination of fresh water and pee-.-"

the cyclist, they must have hated bringing me along, a burden la

but who cares we are a team, and soon i will improve myself too..

the cyclist i am not be,

she's the birthday gurl la

eh.. walls in pulau ubin? prevent we immigrants from swimming back to singapore


i must really say the whole trip was fun and i look forward for more, but could tell the guys must have hated bringing me along, i am a burden.. but practices makes perfect, someday i'll be..

my eyes are swollen.. so hard to fall asleep.

tink missing someone can get pretty tough

i've been missing too much, too many people..

everyday work pile seems aimlesss, yet the hatred for it grew.
Everyday's worries seems increasing, yet the solution remain unsolved
Everyday i wish for some reason he could fasten his trip and return

today i broke down hard again, Dad saw me and scolded me. He blame me for making the man worried and losing his focus to concentrate on his army work. i feel its my fault so i so wanna be selfish, i so wanne have him back for myself.

Tomorro's gonna suck, i lost ALL my friends who agreed to hang out
Took me a while to decide to hate them cos it will mark another day of crying at home.
It also took me a while to understand sometimes things just doesn;t go ur way.
The man couldn't hold on his emotion anymore, i guess i am bringing him too much pressure too.. he kept silence, so did i. Then we hang up, then he sent me an sms, and i wasn't feeling any better..

rEsults came out, nuttin glory about it, yes, eligible for uni.. so what?
work sucks, as usual, my life is in a complete mess, and i felt so is the relationship, if only i could fall back to being what i use to be, to cheat and fool around when he is away and fall back into his arms when he return.

but i am a changed person....

*i wanna separate myself from the world, but i see myself blending into them.

when my first pay comes, i will splurge, leave no cents, cos this pay is too tough to be kept, i hate my off days, i hate staying alone at home..

my life savior, those that say yes to meeting up as late as 11pm in the night, just to hear each other complain about our life, no drink no food, only pillows and hugs.. Awwww!

Sunday morning.. slept till 1pm..


did nuttin


typing useless and random stuff on line,,





i'm pretty deprive of everything!!!!! but at the very same time i am deprive of keeping to myself. i need the time alone.. but i feel the loneliness





then i watch useless show on tv, awaiting my special man to msg.


And then i eat uselss bread spread with nonsensical amount of margarine


and then i listen to chinese music?!?!?!?!





wat a interesting life..

Todays marks the the third day of not seeing him.

my eyes are tired from tearing, i cant even remember how many times exactly have i teared since he first left.

his words are so motivating.. i gotta share.. mark this msg for a lifetime

"dear i reach taiwan le.. tink u still sleeping.. take good care of urself.. miss you"
"oh just go out k.. me here also not good..so u feeling better? if still unwell see a doc tomorrow k? must take very good care"
"the weather here is the same as singapore.. very hot but wind here is very cooling.. muz wait for me to come back k? u are mine"
"dear wat are u doing? where are u huh? now nv reply me.. tink u must be outside.. everything still fine there? miss u"
"hmm.. i received all ur msg.. dun worry my silly.. wat makes me worry is u... so u muz tk good care of urself k"
"be strong k? is late le y haven u gone to bed? i miss u too.. we must encourage each other, this is a big test for us, . we cant fail this dear"
"have u eaten? did u look through our pic? i miss u alot, stay strong k? dun cryle.. mux tk care"
"dun worry.. i dun blame u for that.. sorry tat i complain.. i should encourage u more.. dear.. trust me.. u can do it one.. ok?"
"dear dun be angry with me.. i dun wan this to happen too.. sorry.. really sorry.. dun cry k?.. its makes me feel like crying with u now"
"tink u still at sharon's.. later go home be careful, if too late tk a cab, miss u alot, rem to msg me when ya home"
"i know how u feel cos i feel the same, but we both gotta endure k? i trust u and have faith in u.. srry to cause u to feel this way... be real careful k?"
"pls dun feel this way k? if u keep tinking tis way before i come back u'll be tinking of leaving me..u can do it.. remember our promise"
"thanks alot dear, when i am back i'll be all urs, late le pls go slp early k? another day has passed le, trust me we'll be together for a long time"

its a short three days without him and i make him spent all the bomb on msg. but i seriously cant tk it. We both feel the pressure to hold on.
EVen saddenin was tomorrow he cant contact me cos he cant bring hp on his outfield.. i can feel my lost immediately.

Went to find my besties today, Sharon and Denise both felt the same way before. i guess its because i din experience losin him to NS since we only get back together after he enters the NS for quite a while.

Sharon says when Caifu first enter tekkong for 3 months, life was hard too.. she cried almost everywhere.. just like me.. and we lost contacts with friends cos we had our minds fixed on meeting only the man, i;m just glad i have them with me. Denise had a long day at work, sharon had a tired day, i called them and within seconds we met up at Sharo's.

we talk and i felt so much better.. then we left sharon house. i knew little but heard that Denise and HQ not doing well.. sorry to divert ur attention on me.. sorry u had to give up saving the relationship for the time being to keep me company..

we've decided to meet tomorrow so i dun tink too much about my man on a outfield.

tired, exhausted, but losing sleep. tell me how to cure urself of a illness..

[the most painful part in missing someone is to still continue encouraging the other party that it'll be better and soon be over when u are feeling the lost too]

An outin with the extreme

Zho Zheng and Jun lin might never change.. not even if u give them forever

they are silly monkies that keeps u company but ask u to shoo off

they can even pose for a pictures right

So Apel and i show them the correct example
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First day without the man.

Gotta share the pain of losing someone so dearly to you,. even if it only means 42 days of not seeing him, 1008hrs of missing him, 60480min of tinking about him, 3628800 seconds before i get to see him..

the last day we spend together, it was way wonderful, i had remain my vows and stay strong.. not shedding a single drop of tear. He came pretty early in the morning, i woke up and we talk and share some promises and hopes we hope to achieve from each other after this final trip. I cook him a bowl of noodles and we share it. Then he watches as i prepare myself for work.

He send me to work and i haven seen him then. He pop by suddenly during work and pass me my all time favourite- tofu. I was moved but couldn't tear.
Nigght soon fall and he was about to leave his house for the airport. i remain my cool and we chatted till i reach home. He was by then on his way. By the time i finally relax and lied on my bed, i cried so so so hard.

i cannot describe the pain, its like those time when Grandma leaves, the thought just came back, the heartache. Like those time Lester just left, but this time the pain is more unbearable.
--i recall when i felt like shit the previous time, Lester din came--

and all of a sudden, at the moment when i couldn't hold it any longer, i dial on my house phone his mobile number and my mobile began to rang
(i must emphasize this happens all the time we usually decided to call altogether at the same time)

he couldn;t tk my tear, he beg me so so so many times to cheer up, he repeated those re-assurance, but i cant..
i became so desperate i beg him not to leave.
The man soon cant tk it too.. i could hear the heavy breathe in the way he talks, he was trying real hard to hold his tear too.
After 15 mins of hushing, i manage to calm down, but my nose was blocked, my eyes were swollen i could no longer see.
He was busy with this departure matters, he could only call every few mins after each documentation.

Eventually i fall asleep, those tissues flooding the entire bed.

The next morning i woke up, my eyes were ugly, i had a bad headache but had lotsa of household chores to do. I was sick, mucus and signess.. argh!!!!

i felt better towards the afternoon and decided to hang out with Apel and the guys, that explains the pictures above..

And the man was the SWEETEST k? he msg me every few hours, and call me whenever he can, his voice now sounds better.

[ i always knew the feeling of missing someone, but even when someone is still around, just millions of miles away? if u understood how it feels, u will realise whenever his call, his voice sounds extraordinary to u... i miss him]

minutes before he depart, The man has a request
"can i request that once i return from Taiwan, we'll be officially together... ok?"


i had millions of thoughts running thru my mind.. but i knew, in my heart, it was TIME

me:"yes :)"



first day of missing someone so dearly.

She and i

with my new contact llense.. look at the enlarge eyeballs

check out my cutest cousin,. doesn't she just makes u melt





i am fat la.. but pictures can deceive



the 2 of us.. hate to stand beside her.. hate the contraST



see.. my slim leg.. and her very light body



haha.. this pic makes me laugh.. i tink i look like a really idiotic slut









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