This days, i've been leaving the house for work, spending whatever time possible with bbbbbbbbbbb, trying to spend some time with my family, and planning for the future.

The month of September had been filled with lotsa fun, especially with Clarinda's short return, all three of us (Pau, Clar and me) had been trying our best to spend whatever quality we can come up with together, and nights that we couldnt meet we'll gossip on groupchat. Kristal being myself (that had since stop clubbing a long time ago) will spent all other non-alcoholic time with the ladies.


I'll fill you in with some pictures of the ladies, the bintan trip on the other posts. For now, here's me looking all confident without contact lenses, hanging out with bbbbbbbbbbbb.......


Sharon besties has commented that she still hasnt gotten use to me not wearing my lens.... i believe it'll takes some time getting use to =)

Us inside the lift, me leaving for the zoo to catch up with the members from Takasago, and bbbbbbbb fetching me over before heading to his weekly saturday soccer game

bbbbbbbb's sister pass us some groupon voucher for bak kut teh at Marina Square, and bbbbbbbbbb called upon his usual mates to enjoy this dinner together...


i wouldn't say the PaoXiang Bak Kut Teh at Marina Square is all that Yums...... but the bill sure isnt worth the tiny portion..... i dun see myself heading back the second time....


and some pictures of bbbbbbbbbb and me....... and my AE glasses..... yes you heard me right, i worn my specs out shopping.....

i am very very tanned from the recent Bintan trip with Ray, Jann and Xue...

haha... and my very very thick eye brows.... the new trend is thick eyebrow and i MIGHT have overdone it a LITTLE...

 

One shot throw you pictures of myself in glasses.... and please please get use to this Kristal without Contact lens..... 

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Muahahahaha.................



what shoes do you adore? i love flats, i complain about wearing heels all the time....


i wanted heels, i brought heels, but i dont wear them, if i do, bbbbbbbbbbb hears me complain all the time...


sometimes i ask bbbbbbbbb if i could put on a white lacy pretty pumps on our wedding........ and he will never complain about it..........but other times i think i fail as a woman, not being able to walk around in a nice pair of killer heels.....


some heels are really pretty =) i.e think louboutin






other times, pumps are sooooooo adorable




and wedges?????????????????


other times, when i feel not-so-girly.... i'll go for loafers too =)


being a woman has its benefits =) we get to play mix & match, coupling different kind of shoes together with different attires..... if only flats are equally acceptable as heels, and if only they make all short girls like me, look slanky and tall...



maybe short Kristal is good too?
~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

A Quick update on our National day before leaving the house.


we have intend to bring forward our anniversary celebration to today and its off to catch "Horrible Bosses" in the afternoon follow by a lobster dinner tonight (my craving... )
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bbbbbbbbb surprise me this morning when i woke up with a really really special gift..

he has carefully drafted a copy of our photobook and have it publish into a hard cover book, and this is REALLY our story...........<3

i love how the little memos he writes makes so much sense.... considering he is one person who cannot put feeling into words, i must say those sentence he found off google make perfect sense to our relationship... and had me crying the first thing in the morning.....



i love how the first scrap book he made for me was hand made meticulously and this time it is officially published! We'll finally have something to read to our kids during bedtime in future... right darby? =)

the cover of the book is name the RodKris Ave, its actually a combination of our initials, and the place we'll like to call our own. RodKris Ave is a place we've carefully picture in our mind, a land we have furnish with all our favourite things..... there are my volkswagen beetle, my strawberry milk cornflakes.. and his favourite items..... its imaginery now, but we will eventually make it happen =)
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Apart from the very special book is this gift we've selected together for me......

yes both bbbbbbbbb and i prefer Burberry over other branding due to its slightly affordable, slicky yet stylish designs.....

even the box carrying the gift is cool to the max dont you think?

pulling out the box from the Burberry cover... each step is magically...
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and Behold! my third year anniversary gift from my other half =)

i know how the look of it is plain and mature, and nuttin unusual, but knowing how i will be wearing it for a long while, and as i m stepping into the working society, we reckon how this classic piece is the only option that can last through time......
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Afterall, dont you think this design looks like it's gonna be still the right choice 10 years later?
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haha... i am blessed (in love, not at work, but thats an issues for another day)

Now before you accuse me of not pampering my dearest man on our third year anniversary, here's my present......... its a virtual gift, but one he TRULY like, and was shock upon receiving...


heehee, thats right, i've sign up a 12 months contract of sport channel for my boy in his room and the console and set up shall be done within the next 7 working days.... all this bill to me!



i've always acknowledge him as a huge fan of soccer.... last year i;ve save hard enough to buy him his PS3 console and till date it has been carefully taken care of by him, sometimes i do feel a little ignored when he gets too engross playing his Fifa 11 or winning 11, but other times.... seeing just how it put a smile on his face makes me really happy so its worth it...



this time, the MIO tv sports channel will help him and his buddies (they always watch soccer over prata in serangoon) have a much comfortable zone to catch the live action, chill over snacks and drinks... in the comfort of his room, with the air-con on, and not to have to worry i wont be able to sleep without him at night...


i hope you like it dear =)




and i'll end this post with the same picture from our photobook, the collections of photo depicting our past, happy times, and unforgettable memories

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Busy with work, a pretty non stop matter anyway.... been taking lesser and lesser pictures of myself lately due to the shortage of contact lens,


i haven been wearing a lens for almost a month now.... the feeling is weird but refreshing, haven't seen the sunlight so piercingly strong for a while now... but bbbbbbb and i both felt it was due to the bad bad infection i had from my last pair...
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anyway some terms Miss Optometrist Sheeeenaaaa advise me was that the shape of the lens did not fit my cornea thus for the longest time i had a thin piece of plastic (meaning the contact lens) scrapping against my poor cornea.... (which is the very very thin layer of protection in front of your lens... )
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i know i know very technical terms.... learn it from work, at least i can speak some "doctor" language now... haha

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anyway.... both weekend had been spent with bbbbbbbb's family and his siblings... who are a bunch of fun people that can always come up with places to go..

Here's one place bbbb and i brought them to.... the 12th storey of Orchard Central.... bet you haven been there too.. haha

scenery from above is stunning and definitely deserve an experience... imagine walking aimlessly in town with all the buzzing around and all of a sudden you land yourself in a top-spot amidst the crowd, with beautiful scenery of Orchard, good wind, and lotsa of flora and fauna.... go find the place people!

haha.. this is stupid... we landed inside the editor's market and was shock at how every single garment inside is sooooooooooo over priced.... so while the bbbbbbbbb's elder sis and Aazac's gf went to shop around, Charmine, bbbbb and i were fooling around with their accessories, the shades above is probably the cheapest find you can find there =)

She needs no introduction, she is bbbbbbbb's sister Charmine, you might have seen her on my blog a couple of times... haha... we became really good friend after i dated bbbbbbbbbbbb.,.... and we are planning a awesome 21st birthday for this little princess ....

the two of us being bored and cam whoring while the older siblings shop branded and visit bridal convention.... haha

She has the cutest chin ever... if you ever meet her you'll know what i meant... haha

and here's me.... duper ugly with the tiny eyes of mine.... all i really need now is to adjust the way i take pictures.... from scratch..... its been 8 good years since i rely on contacts..... haix//// this is the real thing now people, the real Kristal face.. haha

the only man who has all the patience in the world to retake pictures after pictures with me till i reach one i am satisfied

dun really like his face here... haha

heehee... in this picture Charmine (the photographer) has taken a wonder angle all is left now it my expression...

there! all nice now... but never as nice as with my contact lens on (okokoko.. its call cosmetic lens but whatever~)
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bbbbbb keep claiming i look better now that i am "natural" and he was the one to bann me from wearing lens for a long period of time... do you know that cosmetic lens has a layer of colouring to define the eye, and the colored part of the lens prevents air from entering the eye thus losing moisture and eventually hurting the eyes.... therefore, wearing proper contacts lens and keep to cosmetic lens only once in a while (not that i am convince anyway)...
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i hope i can take really good pictures with the
"new" look now... haha

picture of the about-to-engage couple.... bbbbbbb's sister Cheryl and her fiance to be Eddie..... its been fun planning up her ROM and wedding dinner... everyone has been supportive.... they also had a group chat on iphone so everyone can throw suggestion whenever they get inspired... haha..
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Thank.God.There's.Iphone... haha

This was taken towards the end of the day... all tired and full from dinner... but savoring the last bit of our energy for a full force Kbox session (bbbbbbb's family really like singing.. haha)

and then i got toooooooooooo tired to take anymore pictures... which marks the end of a not so exciting sunday i've spent...
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on a side note, i'm marking into my third year anniversary with bbbbbbbbbbb this coming thursday.... it should have started on 8.8.2008 if not for my fickle-minded mentality back then... 3 years on and we're still doing the 11.08 matter...
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Dear bbbbbbbbbbb,
today you asked me how i felt about the relationship three years on, i've said it was "stagnant" and had made you upset.

But understand this dearest, we've come pretty far and considering the one year you've been away while i'm here in Singapore, stagnant is a symbol of how things haven change, stagnant has the significance of how i had made the correct decision earlier and am still living off each day with pride.

We haven't been through much downs and ups, afterall, i'm only embarking on a new journey as a working adult now, things are gonna take a twist in time to come and at the very moment now i am just thankful with you, it has been stagnant.

Like i mention this afternoon, our relationship will only face another prime in our lives in about 5/6 years time when we finally talk about the next huge step by talking about "lifetime". And yes, i have been going on and on about wanting to take this huge step but ultimately, i'm really glad you are here to slow me down, to teach me to look into things much clearly, to plan in advance and not to let any regrets take place.

Thank you for the past three years, the next three years, and a couple more we might have to undergo. Till the next year come, i love you Darby=)

Yours Truly,
Kristal

Did i mention she was the cutest baby i've seen on the UK new... sadly by now she has gone to heaven.



11 months old Harley had been fatally stab till death by her 23 yr old mum Jade Rucks who could not deal with taking care of her, Jade feel she couldnt deal with life with Baby Harley around and she was gone..... just like that..


Upon ending Baby Harley life, Mum called the police and said " Basically I've got a situation here - I don't know what's happening.

'I've got an 11-month-old baby and I've literally stabbed her.

'I couldn't handle my life any more. I've stabbed her with a kitchen knife. She took ages to go as well."

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repeat.. ** she took ages to go...

Baby Harley must have suffer quite a bit before she left, and Mum last words before she was put into a Sheriff's car were

"'I'm free now, I'm alright as long as I'm free.'"

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sad.......... but the truth.... the very emotionally unbearing pain of a patient suffering from paranoid schizophrenia

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My deepest condolence

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

A week ago bbbbb's siblings drove us all into JB for a short pampering session for the girls! It was pedicure for the girlfriends/sister and pure walking around trips for the brother/brother-in-law-to-be
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First up was lunch (delicious bak kut teh) near KSL building and pedicure. I was feeling a little feverish that the moment we hit Malaysia.... Bbbbbbbb and his brother both felt my forehead and decided it was time to get me medicine. I sat at the mani-pedi-parlour while they go find medication. Thank God for the panadol Actifast i was well and up to handle the second part of the day.

the both of us in the back seat after bbbbbbb swap role with his brother. He was more familiar with the environment and can better bring us around. I have recently taken a bold decision to stop wearing contact lens for a while. It all started with the cornea (oops.. some optometry knowledge apprehended) feeling like it was coming off the lens, den the heavy pressure of the cornea again when i bend down to pick something. Soon my eyes felt piercing pain especially when i am see bright lights.

It usually din hurt that much but recently the pain was unbearable. I've since stop using contacts for 15 days and the pain have yet to subside. bbbbbbb is really pissed btw =(

Resting at the back of the car...... he wont have to concentrate on driving and can spend time fooling around disturbing everyone!
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Anyway fast forward to after the Pedicure, we were suppose to head to the Jusco place to sing K-box but it was closed! In other words, it was "massage" in replacement.... **not the sleazy kind haha..
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Massage was done at a parlour near Da Ma Hua Yuan (loosely translated as Malaysia's Garden) bbbbbbbb, his bro and i did a 30 min shoulder and head massage for the rest (girlfriend/sister/brother-in-law-to-be) had an hour long full body massage...

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i scream just thinking about someone touching my leg, much less massage them, so bbbbb had no choice but to keep me company <3
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after the massage, while awaiting the rest of them to be done... we saw this------------>>

lok-lok on the go!!!!!!!!!!!! the closest i;ve ever came across to thing of this concept was on TV and now i've finally tasted it for myself!!!
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previously when we head to bbbbbbb's second house at Malacca he had first introduce me to Satay-Celup.... i vividly remember Daddy use to talk about his younger days working for a Celup stall, counting the satay sticks that the customers and finish and then billing them according... i had my virgin satay celup experience at Malacca and the impression certainty stays =)

over at the portable make shift food stall, the boss help us fried the food while we boil those non-fried ones.... the boss also sprinkle some soya sauce, pepper and teriyaki water on the food so it tasted HEAVENLY!!!! i think i had about 3 rounds of this food... and it wasnt even our dinner!

One last picture of the spread, mostly costing $0.80-$1.20 each sticks... simply tantalizing.. i wanna head back for more!!!!!
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Anyway i really like how bbbbb's family bother to pamper the ladies once a couple of months... all the girlfriends will seat around and have them beauty regime done by assistant while the boyfriends gladly wait.....
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#feelingblissful
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Anyway, nuttin much to update about my job, still new to it but am opening myself to other options, i hope i can find a job i can confidently want to stay =) Here's ending with a picture of myself on my way to work...

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And thank you Rodman.....

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~