Thursday, April 08, 2010

Canele

the matter with being upfront honest


Last night I was watching "Bao Liao Hei May Gui" on channel 8 and was honestly amuse at the amount of scandal, hidden secret and etc beneath the glamourous entertainment industry. not only was "fiona" a person of atitude, "mark" constantly off-the-dot, "desmond" afraid of cat and "yifeng" with the highest number of papparazi headlines, there were also other tiny blooper, setbacks all trash in the 1hr show.



colleagues and I sat down during lunch today and gossip abt the stuff we've understood from the show. Both Tina & I and a couple of our felow colleague were impressed that "yifeng" show no fear in revealing each stars' dark secret. I had isssue with ppl being upfront honest with me and see their words as being brutal, bt many times, like many of u. We do hope we had their bold, daring and determination, a sentence once said, allows no room for regret



Indeed I admit I am nt tooo much of a shy-mice myself. There was this time when I was still helping out at canele, a table of 4 french ordered baked rice, pasta, soup, salad, sandwich, ice cream and a slice of cake EACH. That means 4 shares of each dish. I was really certain they can't finish all that they have ordered, and despite the language barrier, I hand-signal to them (rub my tummy, pretend to throw up and motion my hands like they were scooping food into my mouth non-stop) The french probably understood my signals, bt they had insist they could gulp down whatever they've order. As such, I repeat my order (pointing to the picture and show a 4 to represent 4 sets) and confirmed their order.


Upon presenting the order to the chef, he wasn't very pleased and as I was new I felt really intimidated by his doubt. I assure I had double confirm and they really wanted all of the above- in 4 sets. The chef had his doubt and even threaten (more like jokingly tell me he will dock my pay) me abt this.


Let me emphasize that into their third dish, a pasta for each pax, they hadn't complain and were still eating. They even order another pint of beer each and a glass of red wine. I was impressed and almost too convinced they were glutton



bt not too long before- low and behold! - While the chef was preparing the bake rice to be serve, the french asked for the bill. Everyone fell silent and proceeded with the request while the chef look at me in a stern (and rather fierce way). I wasn't ready to accept my failure and felt the blame wasn't entirely.... No it wasn't the slightesssssssst bit my fault. The chef kinda shouted at me for my negligence and got me fuming mad. Despite me being new, I insist he proceed with serving the bake rice, he could foresee me bringing myself into trouble bt since the bake rice was cooked- why nt?



next thing I knew I was holding 4 sets of bake rice and walking over to the french, I made gentle gesture to offer them to pack the stuff they order for takeaway. They simply forge ignorance and ask for the bill as though the rest of the order could disappear into thin air. I signal to them (with a super sweet smile) that I will include their order in bill- whether it was touched or untouched. The french eventually gave in and ate the bake rice, thou they only manage to scrap off the ingredient and forgo the rice.



the chef was rather impress with my guts and announce to the rest that he admires my attitude (without a hinge of aggressiveness of course) and I felt a million eyes salute me. The french left canele with $288+++ burnt in their pocket. Bt at least they had smile and thanks me for my "genuine-ty"



so here's me experience of being bold and no regrets. Have you got any?



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Tuesday, April 06, 2010

doing a backdated post on Denise darlin's birthday.

It was a date that none of my friend knew about, i shall have to credits the success to Google.com

So on her actual birthday on 11 March 2010, we had arrange for darlin to meet me in town. I had did up a treasure hunt clue-map that will eventualy lead her and Sharon besties to the correct location.

i had called up the bistro beforehand to delay the reservation timing, had initially tot they wont be able to locate the bistro that soon

But as usual, my best friends are tooooo brainy for simple hunt like the one i create, already noted to do up a super messy treasurehunt the next time... So i shall fast forward to the time we spend at the bistro. Here's Denise with a cake we all love, special thanks to annoymous for the sponsorship (how nice if the entire dinner was sponsored as well )


We had a hard time cuttin up the cake cos it was a layer of rocher-biscuit in the middle, it taaste
so good i have officially replace this with gateaux chocolate cake from Four leaves in my heart.


What i love about Relax bistro is the humongous mirror we have just behind the dining table, its every girls dream to eat like a lady, but this also happen to the only thing i cant do.

Colleagues have reminded me times and again that i chew very loud when eating, and ever so often i caught myself eating with my mouth open.... how "lady-like"

Sharon sat beside me and Denise is opposite of us, so she did not face the mirror, but it wouldnt matter cos she is probably one of the rare person i see that eats like she is attending an ettiquette lesson. Do you know she cuts up even pasta? she is that delicate at food, but DEFINITELY not that sort that go to the extreme and eat crab with fork and knife (who on earth can do that?)

Sidetrack a little, i nv really had to peel prawn (becaues if i do i rather not eat prawn, swallow the shell together with the meat or use my hand to peel) cos bbbbbb usually do that for me. He took about 8 months to teach me how exactly to peel prawn, and though i still suck at it, at least i am improving.


Ok, did i mention both my besties are Iphoner while i am a BB-ian? Denise has recently decided to get herself a BB, on top of her Iphone so we can communicate. from the picture u cant tell what she is doing but Denise is actually recording down all the food we've order, a TRUE FOOD JUNKIE dont you tink? you can read about all the food we eat here




Another close up pic of me and Sharon besties, we have all grwon up and change soooooo much, even the hair colours are two worlds apart.


Why does all of the pictures makes me look so ugly?



A super narcissist pic of Denise, taken using my camera (super super zoom in) Here's a really clean face, make-up-less (minus the mascara)






In case you din realise, i am wearing Floral Peplum dress in Black and am loving it to the max, one should really own at least a piece of floral dress in their closet =)








~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Monday, April 05, 2010

I will try my best to make it sound as thrilling as possible, cos its been almost 12 hrs since it happen, and while i was narrating it to the colleagues earlier, none of them had much expression..... how cann?


I ALMOST LOST MY LIFE YESTERDAY, 4 April 2010 at 10.20pm.


Important Message: It REALLY pays to keep your bf on the line when you walk home alone in the dark


Case Name: Almost held hostage by a man with knife

Subject in discussion: Dkriss Kristal


Date: 14 April 2010, 10.20pm

Details: i was on my way home from work and was pretty much drain considering i had woke up at 6.45am in the morning to set off for school and had been in batam the night before till late night 1 plus... my eye was badly infected by my contacts and the specs doesnt seem as clear as before.

So i did my usual routine of calling up bbbbbbb and chatting with him while i walk home, I did so because i always imagine what if someone drag me away and no one was around to help me, at least bbbbbb will know i am in danger and manouvere help at his end.

While nearing my place, i saw a suspicius man, about 1.8m in height, skinny build and dark skin, he was "hiding" by a very old tree in my neighbourhood, so from my vision, he was behind the tree on the right side, while the HDB blocks are on the left. It was nuttin strange as the right side of the tree faces ongoing vehicles and i had assume he was hailing a cab.

What seem strange was his behaviour, he hadnt stand very still and was waving his hand vigorously, at first tot he seems to be dancing, in the middle of the road, but through my blurry eyesight i notice something reflective- IT WAS A FRUIT KNIFE AT LEAST 10cm in length.

i couldnt decipher if i had saw the right thing, cos i am - unfortunately- suffering from night blindess, but for my safety, i knew i couldnt stand there, i was barely 2m away from him so i dare say it would be easy for him to charge towards me.

i whisper to bbbb through the phone that i suspect i am in danger, while doing so i secretly tiptop away and made myself (however i could) as SMALL as possible. It was a stupid sight- thinking back- but i was glad i manage to escape without him noticing. when i felt i was a safe distance, about 5m away from him, i run fast as i could to the neighbourhood and look for help.

Coincidently Mum was walking from the other end so i signal to her what i belive i saw, and while hyperventilating and narrating, i notice one police car on the end of the block. Instantly i knew they were looking out for him so Mum and i went in search of an officer i can report to. Just while we were doing so i heard a loud shout from the policeman asking some to "DROP YOUR WEAPON" since Mum and i were REALLY close to the scene then, i really couldnt remember much other than Mum grabbing my arms really tight and pulling me to hide behind a wall.

We witness the entire episode of

  • 7 policeman
  • 3 police car
  • 3 gun
  • 1 Electric shocker
  • lots of action

the man was obviously under the influence of drug as he was wobbily really hard when the policeman shouted at him to drop his weapon. It wasnt long before he suddenly fell into a kneeling position. 3 of the policeman pinned him down, immediately sweep his weapon aside and cuff him.

Mum and i finally ran up the house and look out our window to see how he was eventually led awy by the policemen. My legs were soft and felt like jelly, i was scared out of my wits cos i knew if i had taken a step nearer at that moment, i could very well be his hostage amongst this action.

Amazingly, this incident coincide with something really freaky -

  • It had randomly e-mail bbbbbb, hrs before the accident, the previous blog-post via BlackBerry about reminiscing the moment i really felt for bbbb... i hadnt a slightest idea it could just be my last sentence to bbbbb
  • The fortune teller that bbbbb's Mum had brought me too, advice me to visit him in the month of April cos he had foresee something happen, i suppose that event he refer to was the very same accident i had undergo.

Needless to say i am thankful that bbbbbbb had been on the line, after the whole incident i begin to thank God for the chance for me to escape unhurt, bbbbb's Mum also called me up to make sure i was ok.

It seems that i've undergo a major stage last night, i am proud of the fact that i had remain rather calm through the entire ordeal, and that i hadnt scream and shout like most girl would when faced with knife.

i've also learnt to appreciate my life a little more, to be thankful bbbbbbb had read that paragraph i wrote to him hrs ago. And i ran thru my Msn list and thank a whole bunch of friends who were online for being my friends, i no longer wanna hide such feelings till its too late.

You may say i am overdoing it, but probably you hadnt come-across life threatening moments like i almost had. I wanna cherish all the friends, and those who read this blog and my blood-related cousins of mine.... before it is too late.

and bbbbbbbb....... God has sent a sign.... teehee... i tink u have to marry me to protect me now.. oops!!

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Sunday, April 04, 2010

Re: love you

I suddenly imagine this. "The moment u got out of the airport. I hug u in that purple pullover sis gt u frm pull &bear. Ur body warm sent chill down my spine. Den ur lip touches mine. Next thing ur hand held mine and that boney fingers locked into my chubby fingers n they fitted so perfectly. I even vividly remember staring at ur eye for a while, amaze u finally came back after 6 torturing months of missing you.



Den you had ur arms around mine while we turn to look at ur buddy and u started chatting wit them. I spent the next freaking long moment capturing that moment inside my heart, downloaded it and locked it in a heart-shaped drawer. Just waiting to browse thru it again whenever I wanted to. That enchanting moment of seeing u in real again was magic"



Then I woke up from this drawer and realise I had 10 more weeks before you are finally returning back for good. And that same chill ran down my spine ever again, constantly acknowledging the fact that each time I see/ sometimes just thinking about you makes me nervous. I had fallen in love with u over and over again for 20months and u always felt like the new-found possession=)



p/s: i just realise i had post this alongside the other private msg i have been sending bbbbbbbbb really hoping no one reads it... =(

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Thursday, April 01, 2010

THE STORY OF 2 GAL WITH THE SAME VEST
(special thanks to Cotton On for manufacturing things in bulk@$#^&%">bulk $#^&%^)
One very sad day, two ladies appear -unfortunately- in a similar vest

Ting-" this is photo-worthy" cos we worn the same stuff
Kris- "Why is the effect so different on both of us?"


Ting-"cos i am pregnant today"





She is pregnant today, hahah.. we always had this joke of getting ourselves pregnant so as to escape the torturing PMS and cramps for the next 10 months, despite knowing how its gonna hurt worst with a baby inside us.




Her stomach was bloated from the cramps, thus... we started joking about her "baby"




Kris -" chey! i carry my "baby" for 23 years and counting now, what is ur tiny bump?!"


Ting-"its coming out,.... argh.... hurting..... naughty baby, hurry back in, today's not ur birthday"


Kris - "i heard this saying in a country call verfslaasdihjvcsnsdl that if you do the "period-go-away-dance, your tummy will hurt lesser"


Ting - "come.. teach me! i need this pain to subside sooner"


Kris - "ok.. u go like this... right and left hand up" Right leg raise.... u are doing it wrongly... $^&%^


Ting-"okok... huh? which leg again?"



Kris- "i gave up teaching you... let the pain continue" *walks away


Ting- "Kris!!! the baby's coming out... you've got to help me... push her back.. i'll demostrate again, tell me if i did it wrongly!"





the story ends abruptly when we were reprimanded by Tina, "Oui! 1pm liao, lunch hour's over...."


-.-"





another random day at work


~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Wednesday, March 31, 2010









Some pictures from the latest collection of BlackHairpins
i kept this piece for myself, as well as a lot of others.. this is so pretty and stocks are out so there are no backorders....
the cutting seems to fit me perfectly!! i am mad happy right now cos everything around me are getting pretty (except for the person herself)
So what do you all think? isnt this just a keepeR?
~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Monday, March 29, 2010

i am as baked as
  • smoke salmon
  • grilled lobster
  • CRAB/CRAP

and as though that is not bad enough, i also made a super big blooper that causes me to wake up at 6am tomorrow just so to reach jurong east Station by 7.20am.... (so where's the blooper you probably wonder?......... its the freaking time!!! i was SUPPOSE to reach jurong east at about 8.30 on a daily basis... and now this)

*clasp both hands and kept it near my heart* Oh God, please let Kristal wake up sooner... Let her absorb all the facts on Managerial Economics, Human Relationship Management, Management Science Methods and Account..... and please please please! Please make sure she keeps her hands off online shopping...

This obsession is sick....i browse and browse through them, many times not buying anything, and when i DO buy something, i regret buying them 10mins after making payment.

What exactly is wrong with me? ARGH!!!! counting down 11 weeks to meet bbbbbbbbbbbb in London, and 6 freaking weeks to examinations, and i am still like this... Baked (i meant tann.... EXTREMELY TANNED), in-a-constant-daze (i actually master sleeping while standing up, how's that?), and have absolutely zero sense of urgency.

okok.. enuff rants! Besides all these stuff that is choking me awake-not! i have a handful of activities piling up on the calendar, these are stuff i probably really need to rewind myself a little.

  • wanna get that vest from Cottons on for me and Denise Darlin, no regret on that one! i consider it 5 times before i am fixed
  • Batam Trip with the colleagues .... embarressing enuff, but we are a combination of f4, chipmunks and powerpuff girls... Cant put it to words how it all came about.. Well.. we are going to batam for some real metallic shopping... and i'm almost hrs away from getting a hundred dollars which bbbbbb have agreed will be my fund for this trip.
  • Family dinner!!! The last session was bro&my birthday, which i hadnt blog about cos i din bring my camera out hence no picture. Bro is giving us a treat before he flies off to Taiwan with SIL.. not too sure where we're eating... but we ARE eating TGR... so the anticipation
  • Kite Flying with Sharon Besties- got to cancel the initial plan to do it this Good Friday due to the family dinner... sorry babe. but i REALLY wanna do a kite flying outing soon!
  • Tennis with Cuz. omg la.. the last time i look forward to a tennis with Cuz was back in my JC dayys... which was eons ago!! we are finally getting those fat thigns back on the court... cant wait!

Apart from all these happening, i've to constantly remind myself to absorb more and more facts about the upcoming examinations. Am trying out a new studying strategy thus am not too sure if it will work. Just want it all to end soon so i can join bbbbbbbbbb over in London...

*time pass*time pass*time pass*

i can very well chant that a million times, and time only pass that little!!!

=( Please remind me to post a pic of myself in Pink Lace Print top! i love it to bits and am glad i manage to keep a piece of myself, stocks are running fast, so girls - HURRY!


~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Sunday, March 28, 2010

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I love bbbbbbb. And I TOTALLY love the surprise from him n laos'.......

Here's my new sidekicks
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Monday, March 22, 2010


I wonder if you have a strange kind of affection for something like i had for Waffles?








I am thanking God each morning i wake up in the morning to the smell of freshly made waffles top with butterscotch, maple syrup or just plain magarine. Its like a love from within, and honestly Waffles is one thing (next to cornflakes with strawberry milk of course) i can eat 5 days in a row.








If there is one thing i look forward to each time i leave for bro's hse after work, it will have to be this. I am really really glad Prima Deli has make my life feel so comforted by adding "magarine" on to their list of available spread on their waffle. In addition to the choices, i was able to request for a more cripsy version of waffles, with the magarine melting immediately onto the waffles and leaving a layer of smooth yet salty flavor with such tasty aroma, it hard to resist.








I know alot of you probably prefers waffle with other flavour, and congrats to you those flavor was widely avaialable at all confectionary. i only have my pick tastebud to blame for such exotic selection, but ..................... WHY WONT YOU ALL ADD MAGARINE TO THE LIST OF CHOICES? YOU CAN EARN MY BUSINESS IN BIG FOLD LEH!!!!








,............ i eat a slice of waffle coated with magarine that cost me $1.40 every weekday for dinner as soon as i've reach hse, that will be an average of 5 times a week, and in additional i pick every alternate days to eat them for breakfast as well, that would mark an additional 3 times in the morning,ITS GOOD MONEY LA! you'll do the math!








sO here's an applause to Prime (or Prima, cant figured that one out) deli for their delicious magarine waffles, and thumbs up to those who sell such flavours but have yet to be taasted by me.








On a side note, i would like to highligh my bbbbbbbbbbbbb's effort in finding this fact - that Prima Deli serves waffles with magarine. It all happened one fine day i made a random remark abt waffles + magarine, and assuming it was a common food, he went in search - to no avail- of waffles coated with magarine. After much effort - and lotsa of confusion later- he derive that Prima was probably the only place he found that serves this, excluding all other restaurant that typically serves pancakes or waffles.... It was history since.







So for all of you out there that loves waffles like i do... here's some tips on how to taste waffles at its tip-top conditions:-




  • Request for crispier waffle... there is a good reason for it
  • As soon as it the lady spread the waffle with magarine it will turn soft, and really really juicy
  • allow the magarine to sink in for while, but still eat it almost immediately when the crisp is there
  • begin by sucking - and not biting immediately- the waffles from its edge
  • obviously eat it by the edge first
  • match it with a NON-milk beverage

i threw in the last point due to a fatal mistake just an hr ago, i;ve decided to match my waffles with Honey milk tea from sweetalk (which was my all time favourite when i am not with bbbbbbbb) and i swear i wanted to threw both away when i ate it tgr. Not sure if its cos of the combination of flour, milk, and magarine... it just................. well................ sucks.

i will continue to hold more evaluation and find the best match of beverage alongside waffles with magarine. Here are some choices i've come up by far:-

  1. Green Apple Green Tea (Denise Darling's favourite)
  2. Blueberry Red Tea, Blueberry Green tea (probably Sharon's besties favourite)Peppermint Green tea ------- nah,,, erase that,,,, it would suck worst
  3. Honey Green Tea (my initial favourite, till i discover it with milk tea)

Unfortunately, SiAhPau and me are both huge fan of Honey Milk tea thus i cannot use her as a gauge, bbbbbbbb prefers strawberry milk tea which contain milk, bbbbbbbbbbbb's mummy likes blueberry crush which i reckon wont match as well...and i have ran out of ideas.

IF you are as boring as i am and are testing on a best combination of waffles and drink... please please spare me some ideas too... Till then.. xoxo... Kris

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Saturday, March 20, 2010

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Blogging at far east plaza! Work isn't really fun today. Can't believe I hv to resort to complaining this time. I've always been known as the easiest to get along bt this time. He drove me crazy. Turns out boss already noticed, he had been observingg him through webcam too.

I hate weekend right now, just hate seeing couple giving each other opinion n encouraging each other to buy stuff. If bbbbbbb was around my sat would have been solely for him. N u bet shopping will be triple the fun! He had been away the longest this time round. Long distance relationship is such a major examination- I hope I passed it well.

Gonna end this post abruptly with few pic of the shop. Come visit me =)
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Friday, March 19, 2010

Office!

Proudly presenting my desk. And a turtle my colleagues put to my care 2 years ago. Its aging badly
Tortoise aging!
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Thursday, March 18, 2010

Backdated: Kristal birthday Surprise

This is backdated to 31st Jan 2010, which was my birthday! The entire day was pretty much flooded
with surprises after surprises. I was overwhelmed! But it all started pretty bad.

To begin with, i was stuck at a 6hrs lecture in School so that is almost half a day gone, so i had planned for the day as per follows:-
  • lunch with Pau and hang out with her tilll night falls
  • Run home and skype with my bbbbbbbbbbbbb and do a candle-light dinner over webcam

So SiAhPau had agreed to meet me directly after my lesson to enjoy a massage session tgr, i was thrilled, but dead beat from the absorption of the entire morning lecture. Towards 3pm, just before the lecture finally ended, Pau throw me a msg that somehow resembles this

"hey babe, before we meetup can you help me collect something from my friend LiTing, she have seen u before and can probably recognise you. She is wearing Pink and Black and will be waiting for you at the student admission helpdeck just besides the atrium. But her lesson might end a lil later than yours so please give her sometime"

So i agreed to wait for "Liting in Pink and Black"; and knowing that she's gonna be late, i hadnt said much at first. 3.3o soon passed, den 4, at 4pm, i was FUMING mad. Crazily mad cos i hadnt got patience and when that Liting did turn up i was dead sure i will flare.

Guess who is the "Liting in Pink and Black???????????????/"

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This gals lost their way and couldnt find me... but they eventually did, much to my surprise. And they got a shock themselves cos when they finally found me, i was so angry sitting alone my face was badly scrunched up!
Poor Sharon Besties had a fall while finding me....... hence the smudge you saw on the cake............ so guilty la!!
But check out the cake, still pretty nonetheless, DKS-Denise Kristal Sharon! We had this acronym during our sec-sch days.
The Font "DKS" was proudly drew by Denise, the Heart and BESTIES words were drew by Sharon.
The rim of the cake was a combine effort of both my favourites girls........ It looks delicious and taste good too! There were slices of peach inside, and i was soooooooo touched i teared a little, but ate ALOT....







Denise darling den swipe us off our feet and brought us to a place i ALWAYS wanted to go, heard her mentioned before that the teh-tarik ice cream was a must-try, and this words had never left my head since.... That day i had my craving cured..... I soon left the girlfriends to meet Pau.





Felt really sorry by then cos i was SO angry with her earlier regarding her "late-Liting". She had a trauma when she was force not to pick up my blasting phone calls. Can you believe i even called her sister to demand she picks up the phone?
Sorry SiAhPau, and thanks a million times for coming up with this surprise =)































Not so much picture during the massage, the entire session was a major loves - if not for Pau's scream and moaning on the other room.. The next time i will request we both be kept in the same room so i can see for myself what exactly caused her to moan the way she did ------ which sounded damn damn wrong
I reALLY enjoyed my birthday actual!! The night ended with a good dinner (delicous too) with my "blood-related" cousins (Ray, Viv, Jaryl) and Pau inclusive. I had seen ALL the important people in my life that day, it had dawn upon me how we have all grown up together and that i ld love to enjoy all future celebration like this one....
I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!!!!
*p.s.. darby i love you the most......... cos i know i still have another VERY postpone birthday celebration in line, specially planned by you this July when i did fly over...











~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

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Good morning sunshine!

M blogging via BB right now n honestly am nt too sure abt the quality of this entry. Nevertheless if BB continues to work this well maybe you will see updates on bloggy on daily basis! Gonna tk pictures of my surrounding and entertain all of you with the things that happen around me, real time, real pic and with real emotions =)

Its thurs n I m looking forward to the stayover at cuz. We're gonna have spaghetti n skype session with our Lboyfriend" thereafter. I m beginning to enjoy the fact that LDR is now finally becoming something fun with cuz 'bf over in aussie.

Bbbbbbb and I r already planning on a aussie trip to vist Rem n cuz bf. it wouldn't b this year, definitely next year and I am excited already!!!

Alright shall update again when I find time to come back. Meanwhile here's a blog that keeps me entertain everyday. The blogger has a great sense of humour n you shall find lotsa good things to read. Cheers!

www.mschorlor.com

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Wednesday, March 17, 2010





~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~
















i AM SO GROUCHY!!!!!!!







Why do woman go through such torment on a monthly basis.....
I use to joke around alot commenting on how i should just get myself pregnant in order to avoid feeling this bad for 3 hrs every month.... But now that the manager is pregnant and i get to work with her daily, i dare say, the 10 months of pregnancy is definitely worst than what i am expereincing... so here i am... ranting it on blog.... ARgHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH......



So i was lazing while working earlier and decided to check on some informative measure we can perform to prevent future mensus cramp, and here's some interesting (and quite practical ) solution we can follow: -

  • reducing Salt and Sugar intake the week prior to one's period can encourage less severe pain

  • Eat food rich in calcium like milk product or leafy green vege to lessen pain

  • reduce caffaine intake so breast feels less "swollen"

  • Apply heat to aching areas

  • Stretch! Walk! Yoga!

  • Strawberry tea!! Ginger tea!!


i QUITE like the last point about strawberry tea, am gonna skip explanation to why these helps, cos if they do, they do- no explanation needed!



On the other hand, here are some things KRISTAL (me!) do to relief cramps:-


  • Chocolate- with nuts, without nuts, less milk, more bitter. Strawberry coated with Chocolate sauce is a major love!

  • Hot, hot, hot water...... sip by sip.... throughout the 3-hr-cramp ordeal.. it does put ur mind off the cramp for a while

  • lots and lots and lots of Bbbbbbbbbbb's encouragement (and yes, i tell bbbbbbbb EVERY single time my period comes.... need his consoling) =(

  • Soup for lunch, soup for dinner, soup for supper, clear and almost tasteless soup

  • my all time favourite "herbal" pad does make mensus cramp so much better, the peppermint coated sanitary pad just sooth you-know-where, and the smell of the herbs is comfort to the mind

  • li>basically........ lots and lots of chocolate to supplement my weak body =(


There you have, my kind of treatment. I dunno why but chocolate are saint in times like this, smoothes the throat, lessen the pain, leaves a very very comforting after taste... and basically work its magic to take the pain off your mind- at least for a while



If you have other "home-therapy" to advice, please leave me a comment. Meanwhile i shall go back to sulking for another couple of hours before the pain finally subside



*goodbye*

Morning People!!!



is my desktop spoilt or does all of u sees #$&*&(*&*^ in replacement of ALL the chinese words i've painstakely paste into my blog?



damn blogosphere...... -.-" Go proceed straight to BlueHoney_Joanne link below and you can read them....



Meanwhile i'll get this damn language settled!



~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

BlueHoneyJoanne wrote something on her blog.. and i REALLY need to review it line by line..



Dear Besties and for those who bothers to read my blog, HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU?



Let's do a test on my relationship, with extracts from BlueHoneyJoanne
很多女人常说男人的话不能信,谁都能靠的住,就是男人靠不住之类的话,很可悲,只能说你没有遇到好男人,或者说,根本不了解男人。一个男人如果真的爱你的话,就一定会做出下面这些事:



  • 愿意为你掏钱。钱,在感情生活中不是最重要的,但是是必须的。一个男人如果是真的爱你的话,就不会为你去计算钱,只要你需要的合理,有能力支付,就一定不会不答应。因为在他心里,连你都是他的了,为什么还不能给你花钱?


-i can TOTALLY relate with this. bbbbbbbb is REALLY someone who is never too stingy with $, he never was since the day we started hanging out as friend. Not that he is super well off or anything, but he is always encouraging me to go shopping and to reward myself whenever neccessary. On top of that, he was always generous with his friends and mine too.... There was never a need to be calculative around him.

Not sure if i can tell his story here, but bbbbbbb use to have a good buddy who was always generous about sharing, he always encourage bbbbbbb to share cos ultimately $ is the last thing we can bring into our grave with.



Not too long after, bbbbbbb's buddy passed on, but bbbbb carry on his buddy's belief of sharing, and i dare say he has done a pretty great job




  • 二、愿意听你诉苦女人常常会有很多的不开心事情,在男人看来很多只是很小的事情,甚至不值得去在乎。一个爱你的男人,会希望了解到你在想什么,会愿意听你的诉苦,听完你很多的话后,再发表下评论,安慰下你。


- bbbbbb has some problem trying to really listen to me and hear me rant, it was ok at the start of the relationship, but lately this wasnt really the best he has given.



Probably cos he reckon i shoudnt be shouting into the phone whenever i am upset over somebody else... but... to me.. as someone whose temper is shorter than a ruler, i usually just accumlate all the "suffer" and rant it out, after which its over, once and for all. We haven really work out a solution to this yet, but bbbbbbbb has since agree to accept hearing me rant. I believe we'll solve it one day- together




  • 三、愿意为你让自己受苦年轻的男人,大多数是爱拼搏的,自己苦一点,累一点,没有关系,经济条件有限的人,会自己减少开支,来付出在感情上,有能力的人,则会在做每一件事的时候,都在考虑关于你的未来。自己吃饭的时候,会在想你有没有吃,自己在娱乐的时候,总会想到要是能把你带去就好了,自己在开心的时候,总会想到你这时候会是怎样的心情,总之不管自己处于什么状态,都会想到你。


- I am guilty of these, bbbbb has been sacrificing, he is living all the way at UK, yet he scrimp and save every penny so that when i did fly over, we'll have enough for us both, sad to admit thou he was the most generous guy i've met around, he wasnt doing the same to himself.

BUT i will assure our lives in future will be better off, him with a Degree and so do i, our combine income alone will allow us to live in comfort, to compensate every single bit of hardship we've been going through.

and bbbbbbb sacrifice quite a bit in the sense that he had always encourage me to hang out with my pals while he run down to the nearest library so as not to digress in his studies.... to me its a huge sacrification to an otherwise-quality-time-spend-with-each-other relationship.




  • 四、愿意为你收场两个人在一起吃饭,常常女生最后都会说吃不下了,爱你的男人,会情愿帮你的吃完剩下的。现在这个年龄的男人,大多数在家里是被当着宝贝养大的,一直都是家人付出,自己享受,如果真的很爱一个人,他会放下自己,去为了爱的人。

- haha... he does put on a couple of kilos ever since we hang out, but bbbbbbbb is a health freak, so together, we wont add on hell lotsa pounds.




  • 五、在关键时候,总会护住你两个人一起逛街的时候,爱你的男人会走在靠马路的一边,而你则在靠马路里面的一边,这样你会很安全。登山的时候,爱你的男人总会在你后面,可以保护着你向上爬。下雨的时候,总会把伞向你那边多倾斜一点,即使自己淋湿了,也不想让你受到一点点的雨淋。刮大风的时候,会紧紧抱住你,不让你被风吹到……不管在什么情况下,都愿意尽量减少给你带去的伤害。一个好男人,是需要一个好女人好好把握的,也许你现在身边的男人并不完美,并不是你一直所憧憬的那样的王子般的男人,但是他只要是真心对你好的,你就应该去珍惜,一个女人对男人最大的珍惜,就是好好的去爱他,心里只有他一个,愿意和他一起去承受生活中要面对的。


- from bringing me out to lunch when i was covered in bumps, till sending me to the clinic when i was infected with a dizzy-spell while consuming paracetomol- which i later realise i was sensitive to..... bbbbbbbb has proven times and times again, how he was willing to take care of me (especially during the times when i was infected with those bumps, i cant sit in a bus, cant stay in the sun, and is highly contagious.



Try to blog a list of the niceest thing your guy have ever done, immediately u will feel the need to love him all over again... it took me less than 10 mins into the fight to re-think about our relationship, and to want to cherish him all over again. Does your guy loves you this much too?

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~
ok... i really need to cool down and think straight....



Its infuriating...... every single time he chose to schedule the fight at 9am in the morning and my entire morning are wasted...



i begin to focus lesser at work and my mind is flooded with angry tots abt the fight, and den i commit more and more mistakes and today i finally got my retribution- i was reprimanded by an e-mail CC to EVERYONE at work about the wrong Work Order i have closed. All this thanks to the schedule fight..



i really need to divert my attention off this relationship for a while.... probably the morning call turns out to be a bad idea afterall.... it had started off pretty well with good intention to start the rest of my day at work well and smooth......but at this current stage, the morning call has left me unfocus at work and the anxiety after the fight has cause me to commit so many mistakes at work... i need to focus



it really doesnt help in my studies either, i tend to miss him and have to constantly cover up for my anguish by doing stuff other than studying when he failed to call me, if its school i can understand, but other times that he's busy with stuff... i can very welll lose my mind.



i m losing the strength to held on to this rope.. it is tooo loose and i am losing my grip. i want Kristal to come back... i want to be as cheerful as i appear to be...

~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Monday, March 15, 2010

Well... It sure does hurt like hell when your boyfriend pinpoint that he notice you often crawl back like a wimp after a bad fight, and voluntarily apologies (whether or not it was your fault) just because you can't go to bed knowing you are both mad at each other.

I shall not succumb further to such intolerance n inconsiderate remark.
I will act just the way you tot I WAS suppose to you.

And since u r the sort that leaves fight to heal on its own, I shall see no point in affecting your behaviour further$

No matter how hard it gets to sleep at night, you will not be the first I'll call to confine, I promise.
~Sweet.Silly.Stinky.Sleepyhead~

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

The cramp at the gastric is REALLY killing me..... =(


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